(Read while listening
to Ella No Quiere Novio by Tego Calderon)
I guess it’s inevitable that people want to know what’s up
with your love life. I get aggravated at the expectation of my life to be at a
certain stage (i.e. engaged, married, kids etc.)
I don’t respond well to this!
At some point I thought I wanted all of those things but I
realized there’s really nobody worth it. With that in mind I can’t help when my
answer doesn’t satisfy the inquirer’s thought process, making me a little
anxious. Are you dating anybody? How are you holding up? Have you tried online
dating? Will you try online dating? My answer to all is… Not Interested!
Sure, I’ve met people and gone out on what I didn’t know
were dates but I’m focused on something else, something greater than that... Me!
I invested too much in a failed relationship; it was time to redirect that
attention and effort to me.
I’ve started relationships not too long after ending the
previous one; only to find out that by doing that you’re dragging unresolved
issues to the new relationship. Not to mention the overcompensating that will
go on. I’m done with all of that.
I encourage everybody that’s going through the same thing to
take your time; explore, learn something new every day, meet people, laugh, cry,
travel, read, write, get tattoos and
enjoy the best company possible…Yourself!!! The rest is just sugar in your
coffee!
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